Celebrating the Lovings

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(June 2023)

This week marks 56 years since the Supreme Court ruled in favor of Mildred and Richard Loving’s fight to make interracial marriage legal in the U.S. Only five and a half decades ago, it was illegal in Virginia and fifteen other states for me and Adetola to be married!

Couple in traditional Nigerian attire and coral beads touch foreheads at their flower-filled reception
(These two photos by Dani White Photography)
Bride and groom hold hands walking a sunlit path, smiling at each other at golden hour

The Story of Mildred and Richard Loving

Mildred (black) and Richard (white) met growing up in Virginia and were married in 1958 in Washington, D.C., but were arrested two weeks later upon moving back to their hometown in Virginia where it was illegal for interracial couples to be married. After pleading guilty and moving back to Washington D.C., they took legal steps towards eradicating the laws responsible for keeping them and any other couples in their shoes from the right to wed. On June 12, 1967, the Supreme Court finally ruled in the Lovings’ favor and mixed couples throughout America since that day have been legally able to marry in all states. The official Loving Day holiday was created in 2004, initiated by American Ken Tanabe, whose father is Japanese and mother is Belgian. His efforts to highlight the Lovings’ fight gives a beautiful, sobering remembrance for multicultural couples to continue being celebrated today.

Celebrating Mixed Couples and Families in Richmond

As a woman in a biracial marriage, nothing makes me happier than when I get to capture other mixed couples and families with my camera.

Sarah & Bowie were the sweetest and made the blossoms around Brown’s Island here in Richmond, Virginia, look amazing!

Tommie, Carly, and Isaac are good friends in NoVa, and the biracial beauties they create are somethin else! Baby #2 recently arrived and I can’t wait to get him in front of my camera!

Black and white portrait of parents cuddling their curly-haired toddler in front of a wooden fence

Caleb & Elsa’s story still gives me chills!

Bride grins holding her groom's arm beneath a green steel railway trestle on their wedding day
Black and white portrait of the groom embracing his laughing bride above a city skyline

The Lewises showcased more Richmond love with their beautiful mixed crew…

Family of four poses under blooming trees, the youngest riding on dad's shoulders in Richmond

And my own brother and his fiancĂ© gallivanted around Shockhoe Bottom here in Richmond, showing how beautiful Spanish, Norwegian, Irish, and Filipino families are when brought together….

Close-up of the couple leaning in for a kiss against a painted mural backdrop
Couple poses on a rustic railway footbridge framed by green sycamore leaves in Shockoe Bottom

How amazing that the Lovings’ fight 50+ years ago makes it possible for all these beautiful people to legally be together in Virginia today! That doesn’t mean our relationships don’t have other challenges and criticism in various circles, but we get to continue showing this country how beautifully God intended to bring TOGETHER all tribes, tongues, and nations.

Happy Loving Day 2023!

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